What is Your Major Stress in Life?
What is your major stress in life? A few nights back, while queuing in a drive thru, my kids & I were talking about our personalities. We’re making fun of ourselves, and had a good laugh about it. On a serious side, I blurted out that I was a people pleaser. I wanted people to like me, and yes, it has been a major source of stress for me. It has been that way for me. I want to please my parents, siblings, teachers, classmates, bosses, co workers, hubby, kids, etc. I feel disappointment in myself, if I perceive that I don’t come up to their expectations. I feel ashamed of myself, if I deemed that I fail my children, whether imagined or not. These negative feeling does take a toll on my wellbeing. It took years learning this feeling of inadequacy, so it also took years to unlearn it. It is only through God’s mercy and love, that I am able to accept myself, love myself. It is only through God’s unconditional love, that I am able to say, that I AM ENOUGH. I am a work in progress,
Good for you for taking on these new things and teaching others while you're at it! Thanks so much for the tips!
ReplyDeleteYou’re welcome, Lisa! If readers are interested I hope to share some other simple ways to improve our YouTubeChannel.
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Nancy
Hi Nancy! I am glad that my simple way of sharing how we can improve our social media platform, i.e. YouTube Channel is appreciated. I will try to share more if readers are interested to read more of this stuff here in my blog.š„°
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